12.02.2008

love or need?

naguguluhan ako..nafeel nyo na ba ung feeling na di nyo alam kung mahal nyo ung tao o nasanay ka lang na anjan sha sa tabi mo...i'm committed with the same guy for the past four years named pat..mahal ko sha as in..feel ko nmn na love din nya ang lola nyo..i can say na sha ang nakapagpatino sakin...we've been through a lot..di ko nga expect na tatagal kmi ng ganito..pero bakit ganito nararamdaman ko..nakailang break up na kmi..di maguusap ng ilang araw tapos may isang susuko..di ko alam kung kaya ko na wala sha kc nga home alone ako dito (ibang story un)..sha lang ang meron ako dito..sha ang sandalan ko..pro minsan iniisip ko kung tama pa ba ito..am i staying in this relationship because i love him or because i need him or because nasanay lang ako na anjan sha??i know it's so unfair for him if i'm just staying because i need him..parang user naman ang labas ko nito..i dunno..i'm so confused..basta ang alam ko mahal ko sha what i don't know is the difference from love and im just used to it..i hope somebody can help me para maenlighten ako..


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Mike Avenue said...

You choose... "I LOVE YOU YOU BECAUSE I NEED YOU" o "I NEED YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU"
You decide...

Salamat po sa pagdaan.
BE HAPPY!

Mike Avenue said...

Una akong umepal dito kaya sasamantalahin ko na...
Sabi daw nila, sa pag-ibig:
It is not what you GET. It is what you GIVE.

Mike Avenue said...

Keep on blogging! Isa ka sa mga dahilan kung bakit ako lumalaban!

Sarah said...

well, love is work. if you are willing to work things out for the sake of having a healthy relationship (meaning okay lang ang mag away paminsan kasi normal naman sa human beings ang disagreements)..

then I guess that is love.
love isn't just that "i am so in love" feeling na you get the first few months of falling in love. couples need to make the relationship work to last... yun lang.

lovalot said...

Mike Avenue - salamat po sa pagbisita..parehas tyong new sa blogger world..goodluck!

Sarah-salamat sa comment..ur right kaso minsan those little fights pagpaulit ulit nakakasawa which made me think kung anu ba tlga..add po kita sa blogroll ko..thanks

JoShMaRie said...

naguguluhan ako..nafeel nyo na ba ung feeling na di nyo alam kung mahal nyo ung tao o nasanay ka lang na anjan sha sa tabi mo -MAGULO NGA ANG GANITO

lovalot said...

@joshmarie - magulo talaga..siguro hinahanap ko lang ung kilig moments..

 
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